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"My mistrust [of men] is not, as one might expect, primarily a result of the violent acts done on my body, nor the vicious humiliations done to my dignity. It is, instead, born of the multitude of mundane betrayals that mark my every relationship with a man—the casual rape joke, the use of a female slur, the careless demonization of the feminine in everyday conversation, the accusations of overreaction, the eye rolling and exasperated sighs in response to polite requests to please not use misogynist epithets in my presence."


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#i have a hard time dating men because i have a hard time believing men respect me

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Pretty much. 

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Source on that quote is Melissa McEwan, since no one bothered to credit her for it.

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I am surprised by how much sex I have had in my life that I didn’t want to have. Not exactly what’s considered “real” rape, or “date” rape, although it is a kind of rape of the spirit - a dishonest portrayal or distortion of my own desire in order to appease another person.

I said yes because I felt it was too much trouble to say no. I said yes because I didn’t want to have to defend my “no,” qualify it, justify it - deserve it. I said yes because I thought I was so ugly and fat that I should just take sex every time it was offered, because who knew when it would be offered again. I said yes to partners I never wanted in the first place, because to say no at any point after saying yes for so long would make our entire relationship a lie, so I had to keep saying yes in order to keep the “no” I felt a secret. That is such a messed-up way to live, such an awful way to love.

So these days, I say yes only when I mean yes. It does require some vigilance on my part to make sure I don’t just go on sexual automatic pilot and let people do whatever. It forces me to be really honest with myself and others. It makes me remember that loving myself is also about protecting myself and defending my own borders. I say yes to me.



Margaret Cho, “Yes Means Yes” (via spitswap)

I relate to this all too much, as almost every single male I befriend attempts to pressure me into sex at some point. It’s like they all refuse to be “friendzoned.”

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Went to visit this precious baby again!
The most fashionable toothbrushes I could find on amazon

Photographer: Fantomina NoirMakeup: Sara Conesa - Make Up 101Model: Michelle Elisabeth @ The Other Agency

If the title of your blog contains “sir,” unfollow Me.

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Daddy fetish blogs are the cancer of tumblr. GO AWAY and stop popping up on my top 5 stalkers.

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